top of page
  • Tom Pate

EP 52 - Sometimes you have to carry more of the load

Updated: Sep 4, 2021

relationship fitness podcast

Sometimes you have to carry more of the load in your relationship.


I only have to do my 50% right?

Uh, NO!

You’ve to give 100% every day.

Wait, what?

Each person in a relationship needs to give 100% each day but here’s the thing, your hundred percent today most likely won’t be the same tomorrow. Tomorrow your hundred percent might be more or less than what you were able to bring to the game today.

Confused? LOL. 🤨🤔

Today you might be having a great day, you feel engaged with life and firing on all cylinders but tomorrow you might have a heavier load at work than usual or feeling sick, or received some bad news and are struggling just to cope.

The same is true of your life partner. So, yeah you may have to take more on your shoulders tomorrow. Count that as a blessing because the next day you may need them to carry a bigger load. You never know what life is going to throw your way…

I talk about that and go off a bit about baggage and drama and hanlin’ yo shit in this episode!


Remember, it only takes one person to start leveling up a relationship. 😍👩‍❤️‍👨



Get my bestselling book "7 Secrets To An Extraordinary Relationship Your Parent Couldn't Teach You" here.

Connect with me on Facebook: Relationship Fitness Facebook Page

P.S. Check out my new channel on at where I'm posting exclusive #RelationshipFitness content you won't see or hear anywhere else.

👉Scroll down below and leave a comment 👈 Tell me what you think about this episode!

Also, download the episode & leave a comment about any relationship tips you have that other listeners can benefit from.

Full disclosure: I may receive affiliate commissions from purchases of items promoted.

bottom of page