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  • Tom Pate

EP 55 - Start saying NO to improve your relationship

Updated: Sep 4, 2021

Relationship Fitness Podcast

You're not everyone's angel or savior. The more time you spend helping people with their agenda, drama, project, etc. the more time you take away from the most important relationship affecting the level of joy, happiness, peace, intimacy, and fulfillment in this brief life.

Learning to say no to things that don’t improve the bottom line is a must. The bottom line?

Yes. The bottom line is the inner circle. The inner-circle that is your relationship. If what is being asked of you detracts from your relationship it likely should be a no. Why do I say likely?

Because there are bound to be some things that come along that may feel like a sacrifice and take some time away from the inner circle, but the upside if significant enough and the impact is not significant and easily overcome then it “might” be worth the cost. Tread lightly in these instances.

This is the importance of passing any ask of your time no directly related to your own personal and relationship goals through the RWID filter.

What is RWID filter? Tune in to this week’s episode and find out.

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